No one ever said planning a wedding was going to be easy! But there are a few ways to have relatively hiccup-free day, which is why we’ve put together a list of the most common mistakes and how to avoid them.
Blowing your budget
Everything is so exciting at the start, that it’s easy to jump the gun and start ordering everything you see, but this is a slippery slope and no marriage should start with a mountain of unnecessary debt!
Start by having a honest conversation with your partner and create a realistic budget, including savings and payment plan. This way you’ll know exactly where you stand money-wise.
Letting other people dictate your guestlist
Yes, your mum may want your great auntie twice removed and her cats to attend but you’ve never met her and it’s another person to pay for. Families can be difficult to say no to but it’s important to set clear boundaries when wedding planning.
Sit down with your partner and write your must have guestlist (people that are non-negotiable) and then you can add extras in later if your capacity allows it.
Including traditions that you don’t want
Psst, let us tell you a secret…you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.
You don’t have to wear white, be given away, have a first dance, or have a giant wedding party. It’s your wedding so only choose the traditions that truly speak to you.
Not planning for the weather
The British weather is unpredictable at the best of times and even if your wedding is in the height of summer you’ll need to plan for rain!
If parts of your wedding are taking place outdoors check with your venue to see if there’s a room that can be quickly dressed if the weather does turn.
Not being on top of the legal bits
Whilst other parts of wedding planning may be more exciting, there is nothing more important than the legal paperwork to make everything official. Set reminders for deadlines and double, triple, quadruple check that you’ve got all the documentation required.
You forget what it’s truly all about
Your wedding is meant to be one of the best days of your life but the reason you’re getting married is to start a life with the person you’re in love with.
Wedding planning is stressful and expensive which can lead to arguments so always keep your wedding day in perspective and try not to let it take over your whole life.
We’re always on hand to make sure your big day runs smoothly and is as stress-free as possible, get in touch with the Barn Manager today to book a viewing.
